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    • Jan 15, 2020
    • 5 min read

Why Life Is A Mirror Reflecting Your Inner World?


“Life is a mirror and will reflect back to the thinker what he thinks into it.” ~ Ernest Holmes

Mirror Mirror on the wall


Everyone we meet in our lives are our mirrors that reflects some aspects of ourselves.

They reflect part of you that you aren't willing or wanting to see. Everyone is your mirror. Other people are reflecting parts of your own consciousness back to you, giving you an opportunity to really see yourself in order to help you grow and evolve. The qualities you most admire and dislike in others are your own. When we want to change something in someone what we're really trying to do is change our own reflection. This is the reflection that we don't like. If you want to change anything in your relationships, you have to embody the change you want to see. You need to learn to recognize yourself in other people!


Meeting the same kind of partners over again...


Our romantic relationships serve as the best mirrors. It's no secret that your intimate relationships tend to be similar in nature. Have you noticed how the key fundamentals remain the same? There is repetition in the same feelings, same insecurities and the same problems that keep resurfacing. When your relationships don’t go as you had planned, it’s because some parts of your subconscious psyche sabotages it.


“Our environment, the world in which we live and work, is a mirror of our attitudes and expectations.”~ Earl Nightingale

There is One Common Denominator


It doesn't help you when you go from one relationship to another without understanding why you attract similar partners or unconsciously sabotage your relationships. The only thing this does is leads to the same results, over and over again.

"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results." ~ Albert Einstein

Maybe you haven't noticed that in all these repetitive relationships there has always only been one common denominator: YOU. No matter how many times you changed relationships, the main fundamentals of your relationship will remain unchanged because the other person is simply mirroring you.


At first, this realization may frustrate you and you may even reject the truth that everyone is your mirror. However, you will understand and learn to recognize what others mirror back to you, you can use this to your advantage and help yourself establish healthy relationships that previously seemed out of reach. How do you do this? The only person you have to influence is YOURSELF!



What are you really seeing in the mirror?


You must first understand how everyone is your mirror in order to internalize this truth. Relationships with other people are your opportunity to better understand yourself and to grow because of it. They are a perfect mirror of your inner relationship with yourself and the beliefs and conditioning you have acquired throughout your life. Everything you admire and dislike in another person belongs to you. In order for you to recognize certain qualities in another, they first have to be a part of your own consciousness. You wouldn't be able to see it otherwise.


Learn to read what others reflect:


1. Others don’t believe in your dreams


When others don't believe in your dreams, then ask yourself do YOU believe in your dreams? Are you 100% dedicated to them? How do you speak to yourself about what you want - is there any lack of trust? Other people we meet reflect our own inner doubts.


2. People are telling you what you should or shouldn't do


Are your friends, family or partners always telling you what you should do? If so, this reflects a fear of making your own decisions. Do you believe in the choice you are making? Other people can feel whether or not we trust our own options and decisions and can take advantage of this.



3. Others get angry with you


Do people often get upset with you? If you are attracting irritated and angry people, they mirror your anger. You may be unconsciously angry with yourself or this world, and others can pick up on this energy even if you can't.


4. People lie to you


Are you meeting people who lie to you? Then you should ask yourself the question: do you lie to yourself and or others? This may be a difficult question to ask yourself but it starts by being honest and authentic with yourself first and foremost. Doing this brings peace, self acceptance and shows you who you really are.


5. Others are doing what you want


When you encounter people who are taking that course, class, job or vacation that you've always wanted it's a clear message from the universe to wake up! Other people are showing you the path. What does this mean for you? That it can be done, but for some reason you aren't taking that first step yet...

Other people are your mirrors


“Everyone and everything that shows up in our life is a reflection of something that is happening inside of us.” ~ Alan Cohen

Some people reflect what we need to heal while others help to inspire us to live our best lives. What you need to do is shift your perspective and learn what lesson is being taught. Our relationships with others are our gifts. Everyone has a message for you, even the people we don't like.


Going through a spiritual awakening?

During an awakening, it may be useful to have some professional guidance: someone who can confidently, patiently and without judgement help us, step by step through the healing process. If you are in need of someone to talk with about triggers, past trauma, childhood wounds or repressed emotions. I am available for online booking please contact me directly at: fromanotherealm@gmail.com


Face whatever is holding you back head on and it no longer has power over you, you have power over it! Awareness and anything can't co exist. Awareness is more powerful than your ego, your emotions, your thoughts and your feelings. Awareness is what gets you back home to your soul purpose.


You can use your pain and turn it into power. If you are willing to work on where your pain comes from, the lesson to be learned and turn your knowledge into action, you can use your suffering to turn you into a stronger and wiser person! I look forward to working with you on your spiritual journey.


Love & Light,


Namaste ~ Paulina 


Hello, my name is Paulina. I went through a spiritual awakening journey in 2018. I am in touch with my higher self and want to help you find yours. Until your higher self kicks in let me be your guide back home. Book 1:1 sessions with me: fromanotherealm@gmail.com
 

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