"The most basic need a soul has is to experience unconditional love and acceptance." ~ Danny Lee Silk
Love – is used frequently in every language to describe emotions ranging from "I love your outfit," to "I love you."
Is there really a difference between unconditional love and conditional love?
The answer is: yes!
Conditional love is a polarized emotion, which means it has an opposite emotion. The opposite of love is hate. Conditional love is ego based and can either focus on someone or an object. When we love conditionally, it means we want them to act, think, look that fit with our own expectations and standards. We then hold others accountable to our expectations in order to be entitled to our affection. When they act the way we want them to, we express our approval, when they act outside of our expectations, we withhold our expression of acceptance. This is usually done in some form of anger or resentment like: "I am right, you are wrong, you need to see things my way." We are not in a space of unconditional love when we begin to judge someone as being right or wrong, because we are perceiving that we have authority over someone else's life. This focused on control and power, which typically results in a defensive reaction from the other person we "love."
Conditional love is present when you are looking for another person to complete us rather than looking within to find that. For example the phrase: “looking for our other half” strongly indicates we are seeking to make ourselves whole through someone else, rather than working on ourselves to become whole without needing anyone else.
Conditional love is present when you are looking for another person to complete us rather than looking within to find that. For example the phrase: “looking for our other half” strongly indicates we are seeking to make ourselves whole through someone else, rather than working on ourselves to become whole without needed anyone else.
Unconditional love comes though to us at a soul level and has no opposite polarity. It starts with self-love, self-respect, self-acceptance and self-forgiveness and radiates divine light to everyone and everything. Spirit is the source of unconditional love, therefore it is available to anyone and everyone. When we make a conscious decision to choose unconditional love, it means we consciously commit to expressing kindness, respect and helpfulness to everyone and everything in our environment.
Unconditional love is a life force energy within us and is ingrained in every cell of our bodies. It's not something that happens to us or outside of us. We don't have to search for it: we ARE unconditional love in the physical embodiment. There is nothing we need to do to qualify for it, unconditional love is a life force energy it is infinite, abundant, formless and available to us 24/7.
Did you know that unconditional love has a positive effect on our spiritual, mental, physical and emotional state of being? By embodying unconditional love you create joy, bliss, oneness, harmony, health, peace and prosperity. Unconditional love is infectious as it flows through us; it blesses everyone and everything it comes in contact with. We feel radiant and expansive when we open our hearts to receiving and expressing the love of the Universe. This leads us to rise above the limitations of fear because unconditional love is more powerful than fear, it's the most powerful force in existence!
We are each created in divine love and have the power to bring our own unique expression of unconditional love to the world, This brings healing to everyone and everything we touch!
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Face whatever is holding you back head on and it no longer has power over you, you have power over it! Awareness and anything can't co exist. Awareness is more powerful than your ego, your emotions, your thoughts and your feelings. Awareness is what gets you back home to your soul purpose.
You can use your pain and turn it into power. If you are willing to work on where your pain comes from, the lesson to be learned and turn your knowledge into action, you can use your suffering to turn you into a stronger and wiser person! I look forward to working with you on your spiritual journey.
Love & Light,
Namaste ~ Paulina
Hello, my name is Paulina. I went through a spiritual awakening journey in 2018. I am in touch with my higher self and want to help you find yours. Until your higher self kicks in let me be your guide back home. Book 1:1 sessions with me: fromanotherealm@gmail.com
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