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How To Tell If A Relationship Is Twin Flame, Soulmate Or Karmic?


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"Every soul has a twin, a reflection of themselves – the kindred spirit. No matter where they are or how far away they are, even in different dimensions, they will always find another. This is destiny; this is love." ~ Julie Dillon

At the start of our souls journey we were created in Gods image as an Alpha and Omega, where the soul was split like an atom into two identical parts. Twin flames are two parts of the same identical soul blueprint. This is commonly depicted at the yin and the yang. The original twin flames from history were Adam and Eve. Who has a twin flame? We all have a twin flame, however not all of us are meant to meet them in this lifetime. Somewhere in the cosmos, your divine other carries either the feminine and masculine polarity.


Often our soul's memory of ourtwin flame is very vivid that no other love can compare. It can make us feel alone in this world and long for "home" with our twin flame. Twin flames are our mirrors- everything and anything that we have spent our lives denying and running away from is right in front of us. This mirror effect forces us into a spiritual awakening, face our shadows, take accountability for our lives and do our inner spiritual work. Meeting your twin flames brings up your fears, pain, insecurities and ego driven desires to the surface so you can feel it to heal it and then let it go. Depending on the spiritual development of the twin flames, there will be phases of running and chasing. Oftentimes there will be a runner and a chaser twin to complete the karma, learn the lessons and balance the energies.



Some modern day movies about twin flames include: The Notebook, Serendipity, In Your Eyes, Loving, Romeo & Juliet, Somewhere in Time, The English Patient, Moulin Rouge, Kate & Leopold and I Remember You. Many twin flames throughout history are seen as tragic love stories like: Romeo and Juliet, , Samson and Delilah and Cleopatra and Mark Anthony.


Oftentimes twin flames are kept apart by karmics and dark forces who sabotage twin flame union and keep them separated. This is because when twin flames come into union they are very powerful together. Coming back into union with your twin flame requires you to wake up, do your inner work, heal your inner child wounds, face your shadows, go thru a dark night of the soul, balance your masculine and feminine energies within yourself, surrender to the universe, love yourself unconditionally and come into union with yourself first. It is only then you become a vibration match for physical union with your twin flame. Oftentimes, it's your twin flame who helps you remember and awaken to your divine essence. I can speak from personal experience, my twin flame is the one who catapulted me to "wake up," since then my whole life has changed incrementally.


Oftentimes twin flames have a lot of karma between them which has acquired from many lifetimes and leads them to choose the next best alternative: a soul mate. Regardless of any challenges, it is possible to reunite and stay with our twin flame. Your relationship with that person is a once in a lifetime, ain’t nothing ever gonna be the same type of love.


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“Soulmates aren’t the ones who make you happiest, no. They’re instead the ones you make you feel the most. Burning edges and scars and stars. Old pains and pangs, captivation and beauty. Strain and shadows and worry and yearning. Sweetness and madness and dreamlike surrender. They hurl you into the abyss. They taste like hope.” ~ V.Erickson

Soul mates and karmic relationships are the other two positions of partnership. Soul mates can create very happy marriages as they are working on similar soul initiations, life lessons, and projects in this life. Soul mates have been friends for lifetimes and may need each other in this life to satisfy a mission or complete a work. They may not experience the incredible, all-consuming, intoxicating and intense love dynamic as twin flames.


Soul mates experience a stable, calmer, easier and more predictable connection together. They have a connection that is slow burning that can last a lifetime with lots of chemistry and passion. Soul mates don't have to be romantic relationships, they can be friendships that last a lifetime. Soulmates are often those we choose to build a life with and marry, because there is a unique connection. Together soul mates work harmoniously in working together as a team, raising children and having a comfortable life with. Soul mates make us feel happier, stronger and richer.




“There will always be a reason why you meet people. Either you need them to change your life or you’re the one that will change theirs." ~ Angel Flonis Harefa

Karmic relationships have an intense attraction and emotional charge and can be confused with that of a twin flame. Oftentimes these relationships turn into a mental obsession that isn't healthy for anyone. There is an intense and compulsive sexual attraction present and it's hard to get them out of your head. In reality, these are often signs of a tragic past life experience with this person. Your soul is warning you to NOT get involved with this person.


Speaking from personal experience, oftentimes this "red flag" is ignored and rejected. I was in a 3 year toxic karmic relationship in my early 20's. This relationship was physically, psychologically, emotionally, mentally and sexually abusive. After 3 years of this abuse, it left me feeling lost and empty inside. This person drove me near insanity and it took me many years to put back the pieces and find myself again.


I also have karmic family members: my Mom, Dad and Sister. Growing up surrounded by narcissists was a challenge because I grew up thinking that this was normal behavior. I know now that it's not and it's a serious mental condition called narcissistic personality disorder.


What is a narcissists? A person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves; they think that the world revolves around them. I immigrated from Poland as a small child and only had my immediate family for support and guidance. We were very poor and moved around a lot. My childhood lacked love, support, protection, sympathy and empathy from my parents as they were both narcissists that just keep taking and never give anything back in return. This left me feeling like I did something to make them not love me. Or that I was somehow "unlovable" or unworthy of love. When you are abused as a child you don't stop loving your abusers you stop loving yourself. It wasn't until after my spiritual awakening last year that I finally started loving myself and taking my power back from my abusers. That's when the love for my abusers stopped.


Karmic relationships are relationships from past lives where you owe them karmic debt or they owe you. The relationship ends when the debt is paid off and the relationship has played out. How to tell if you are in a karmic relationship? If you feel like you need therapy as a result of your relationship with this person, this is a strong indication of a karmic. Do you feel mentally, physically and emotionally drained? Are you in a downward spiral since starting your relationship? Are you experiencing more stress and anxiety in your day to day life? Are you giving too much while your partner is doing all the taking? These are all signs that this is a karmic entanglement.


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It's all about self-love first!


It is important to remember that we all need self love more than we need any relationship. You have to first find love within yourself before you can attract a healthy equal partnership. It all starts with having a loving relationship with yourself first! As we enter the age of aquarius, many soul mates and twin flames are coming into union to anchor in the unconditional love to Gaia. The love between twin flames and soul mates spreads all over the word, our cities and communities and helps us heal others.


All successful relationships require balance- it's how the universe works. There must be an equal amount of giving and receiving present in a healthy balanced union.


Going through a spiritual awakening?


During an awakening, it may be useful to have some professional guidance: someone who can confidently, patiently and without judgement help us, step by step through the healing process. If you are in need of someone to talk with about triggers, past trauma, childhood wounds or repressed emotions. I am available for online booking please contact me directly at: fromanotherealm@gmail.com


Face whatever is holding you back head on and it no longer has power over you, you have power over it! Awareness and anything can't co exist. Awareness is more powerful than your ego, your emotions, your thoughts and your feelings. Awareness is what gets you back home to your soul purpose.


You can use your pain and turn it into power. If you are willing to work on where your pain comes from, the lesson to be learned and turn your knowledge into action, you can use your suffering to turn you into a stronger and wiser person! I look forward to working with you on your spiritual journey.


Love & Light,


Namaste ~ Paulina


Hello, my name is Paulina. I went through a spiritual awakening journey in 2018. I am in touch with my higher self and want to help you find yours. Until your higher self kicks in let me be your guide back home. Book 1:1 sessions with me: fromanotherealm@gmail.com
 

1 Comment


Cody Allison
Cody Allison
Mar 22, 2020

Hi Paulina. This was beautiful. I really enjoyed reading it and all your other posts. I hope you’re staying safe from this coronavirus that seems to be going around a lot. Love and light ❤️ Namaste ~ Cody 🙏

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